Monday, July 31, 2006
Good Night, Sleep Tight
Ever since my little baby bird Taylor was born, she was a handful. Having had Reflux and Colic when she was born, we've had sleep issues from the very beginning. By sleep issues, I mean lack of sleep. I'm sure many of you moms can relate, but I have not had a full night slumber in six years.
About 6 months ago, Taylor had the flu really bad, with severe vomiting. I made the mistake of bringing her into bed with me, and Dad slept in the living room on old faithful. Of course, once this began, it has not stopped. Poor Dad has been sleeping on old faithful ever since, but in the meantime another development took place. Courtnay started whining to sleep with Mom and Taylor too. She gave me the old "if Taylor can sleep in Mom's bed, then so can I." How can you argue with that? So Momma Birds nest got alot fuller. And poor Pappa Bird seemed to be out of the nest, lost on the ground.
Sure, the sleep was great...if one of the girls woke in the night, there I was right at their side, not having to even step one foot out of bed. Any issues were resolved quickly and painlessly. And, I had the benefit of cuddling with my babes...there is no better feeling in the world. Falling asleep with my babies has been the best feeling in the world, safe by your side.
A few weeks ago, Papa Bird decided it was time for the birdies to leave the nest. I reluctantly agreed, the feet in the face, and lack of space in the nest was starting to get to me a little. We decided it would be a great idea if the two baby birds shared a room, with both single beds in one room so they would be together. Courtnay and Taylor were so excited! The thought of them having their own room together made them ecstatic.
Inside, Mama Bird was withering. Although I was excited at the prospect of snuggling with Papa Bird again, I felt an empty space inside. I was excited for the girls, and always knew it was not a good scenario having them in the nest, but I have come to realize that I enjoyed them sleeping in the nest possibly more then they did.
The transition went off without a hitch. Both Birdies have their own nests, and their own space. I now read them a story before bed, tuck them in and say good night with a kiss.
And Papa Bird is back in our nest. All is well in Birdie land, except for one thing...I am missing having my babies sleeping in the nest something awful! I have been having trouble falling asleep, and feel so empty inside. How can this be? Now I have a sleeping issue. It seems I cannot get a restful sleep without my birdies with me. I know how unfair that is to Papa Bird, but I am finding I can't help myself.
I love Papa Bird more than life itself. But I have to admit, he is not the best "sleeping" partner. He snores like a bear, scratches his feet on the sheets, and "gurgles" because he is a smoker. Last night, we had burgers for supper. I love onions as much as the next person, but he seems to put half an onion on every burger.
One can only imagine how painful it was to sleep in the nest last night, with the stench, the gurgling and the scratching. I am finding myself missing the sweet smelling cherubs that I am used to sleeping with.
I hope one day Papa Bird will decide Onions are really not required on hamburgers, hotdogs, or on Pork Chops. I also hope he will find his way to the Patch...but I don't know if that will happen. He's been smoking since he was 13, and enjoys it a little too much. Besides, I knew he smoked when I met him, however I did not know about the onions...
Life is grand, I only hope one day, one day....I will have a full night of sleep!
| posted by Warm Fuzzies at 7:27 AM
3 Comments:
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At Tuesday, 01 August, 2006,
Renee Nefe said… -
At Tuesday, 01 August, 2006,
Lisa said…I am right there with you. Mine slept with me from the day I brought the monkey home from the hospital. She slept on my chest for the 1st 3 weeks, and then into the bed she went. I know they say it is bad, but she made it through with out me crushing her! When I moved her out of the bed, it was a hard time for sure. I still await the day she decides she wants to return. I think you should send papa bird back down to old faithful and have that nest to yourself for some nice peace and quiet. Have a great one!
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At Tuesday, 01 August, 2006,
Warm Fuzzies said…
Oh that's so sad for you. It was too bad that there couldn't be room for everyone in the nest...we bought a bigger bed and then added another bed as needed. The family bed worked so well for us.
But alas my little chickadee has left the nest too and I'm back to just DH & me.
I would have to talk to Papa Bird about his keeping you up at night. You shouldn't have to suffer your sleep. Best of luck!